Men may be aware that one plus one equals two, and two times two equals four, but far too many have not discovered the formula for dating a happy and satisfied woman. This theory according to Chuck M. from Pennsylvania, known among a large group of female admirers as “Daddy”, says that the principal of dating is simple and easily achieved. “I learned this simple formula by paying close attention to what my woman says and even what she does not say.” This simple practice has produced for him respectful and satisfying relationships, be they casual or serious he follows a basic rule of thumb:  “Listen to the needs of your girl.” “Honing in on the needs of your woman is not only sexy but makes for much better relationships.” He cautions that not all language communicated by women is verbal and says that women speak different languages depending on their needs and what may be going on inside them at any given time. Thus, the language of love can be communicated to a significant other as simple verbal requests or by the method of non-verbal communication.

“Before swinging at the ball and trying to get to first base, apply a few simple techniques to improve your swing and get a better chance of hitting a home run with a lasting and satisfying relationship.“

“Men should always remember that women are emotionally driven and tend to look for an emotional connection when considering relationships.” Chuck says that sometimes a woman will even overlook red flags in an attempt to mold and experience a quality relationship. So it is to the advantage of the man to employ proven relationship tips to reap the benefits of a satisfied woman and dating romance.

Chuck says he is not opposed to the idea of 4 minute dating, city speed dating, or hurry dating, but says that regardless of how much time you have you should maximize it when you’re really digging someone. “Men think it’s sexy when a woman gives a flirtatious look, or asks for a dance, or initiates a conversation so women should not be shy! But they should not confuse assertive action with aggressiveness and control.”

When I asked Chuck to offer the readers one word of caution, with a light chuckle, he responded, “Never take on a movie as a first date!” He further states, “The first date should always be someplace that will allow you to conversate and interact with your date and get to know him or her better to decide if a request for a second date will be extended.”

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Chuck M. is a law enforcement officer, a proud single father, and an aspiring author residing in Pittsburg, Pennsylvania.

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|  Carmen Santos Monteiro